Why dont you talk straight to me???

Over a pot of black chicken soup for him and porridge for my baby, I ended up being classified as 'selfish' DIL. What could have been the worst news that is going to dampen your jolly mood on a beautiful Friday morning? I have promised my man a bowl of black chicken soup several years ago, and until a few weeks back I finally took the first step and prepared a pot of black chicken soup (with chinese herbs). I didnt offer to my MIL in particular coz I felt so inferior and shy to introduce my first attempt on this turned out to be not so nice soup. End up? I kena condemmned of not sharing. Well, I do admit partly its my mistake, because I didnt offer...

So what happen with the porridge for Derrick? My mistake again, as selfish DIL... Apparently I was under the impression that I only cooked for my own baby and neglect the PRINCESS BABY (my SIL's millionaire daughter) of the household and to make it worst of all, we are sharing the same cooker. I remembered clearly I OFFERED her the porridge several times in front of my MIL. And I only use the cooker twice perweek and thats when I am not working, and my MIL has the full access to the cooker 5 fulld days a week. To top it up, she doesnt really cook porridge for her PRINCESS GRANDBABY that often and why she has to complain that I am using the cooker and only cook for my son which is her GRANDSON as well?????

I know I am still fuming when I am typing all these words, why would she deliberately want to cook when I cook in the weekend which is only 2 days of the week??? And I dont really occupy the cooker whole day for god sake. And I did offer her.. I am indeed fuming, and wish to explode just like the recent errupting volcanoes. I know very well that the solution will be cook more and ask them if they want or not for both the not so tasty black chicken soup and porridge. In this case I would not make my man in difficult position. I know this is the best solution. But I just have the urge to get another brand new cooker to show them that hey, I am not too poor to get another cooker.. which is still within my means... Its soooooo sooo difficult to live with in law.. after all they didnt spend your first 30 yrs together with you..